Showing posts with label relaxation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relaxation. Show all posts

Monday, 9 March 2015

Reading Vs Watching T.V (and other news)

Good morning my lovelies!

I'm feeling particularly chipper today and I'm going to put it down to the breakfast I just had. I seriously recommend it!! Grate a small apple and half a beetroot into a saucepan and cook up with a smidgen of butter. Then add a sliced banana and stir a little. Mix in five tablespoons of oats and a heaped teaspoon of cocoa powder. Add sufficient milk/milk substitute and leave to bubble. Top with flaked almonds. You will have a deliciously dark purple porridge that will fill you to the brim and make you feel fantastic. Just like this.


You KNOW she had a good breakfast.

Anyway, back to the vocabulary challenge :) I have been doing my half an hour stint on vocabulary.com daily (although sometimes I only manage twenty minutes - it can be rather grueling) and I think it's helpful. It's made me start to look at how words are constructed, which means I can now start to work out what a word means when I've never heard it before. Nailing down the words is mostly a process of repetition, and aside from some website issues (quite a few of the multiple choice questions don't really have a correct answer, more like a synonym than a definition) I think it works pretty well. It's reignited my interest in language and words which is always nice.

The 'word of the day' story I am not so happy with. I thought giving myself a whole paragraph per word would make it more challenging, but actually it's making it easier for me to skate around to make sense of the wacky words I am using - resulting in something much less fun than I intended. So I have decided to back peddle a bit and do one line per word - which should mean I end up with a fun, nonsensical very short story/poem that is a bit less contrived. So I need to go back and do that for the eight words I have so far, and then from today I shall stick with that plan.

The reading element of my challenge is FANTASTIC! Reading is one of my favorite things to do, but often at the end of the day it seems so much easier to just switch on the telly. But as I learned from October's Challenge of Cutting Down TV and Facebook, watching T.V can drain so much time, when you could have been achieving things! And too much sitting around and staring at the screen can make you feel A Bit Shitty.

Now I am a great lover of good T.V and Cinema, but it's all about finding that balance, and sometimes I think you have to give yourself a little push and say 'no, I'm gonna read instead.' A lot of the time it just feels like you don't want to put in the extra effort that reading requires. But in fact, once you get going, it's really not that hard! It's like running - the hardest part is putting on your shoes and getting out of the door. Motivation is key.

Unfortunately, since October, I have fallen easily into watching T.V again. But this challenge, forcing me to read, has reminded me that ultimately I would like to end up spending more of my 'down time' reading than watching T.V. Why? Because it's simply better for your brain. It's actually more relaxing. It might not seem like it at first: but here is why.


The phrase 'T.V rots your brain' might seem like a parental trick to get us moving - akin to 'eating your crusts gives you curly hair' (My sister always ate her crusts and I didn't for a long time. My hair is curly and hers is straight. MYTH BUSTED) but actually it's a pretty accurate description. When you watch T.V you are allowing your brain to make almost no effort. You're kind of vegetating. And the brain is sort of like a muscle in that it needs to be put to good use to develop further. So any form of vegetating should really be kept to a minimum.

But we all need a rest now and again, right? The problem is, watching T.V isn't really rest. When you sleep, your brain is getting proper rest and time to recuperate. But when you watch T.V, your brain might not be doing much work but it IS being stimulated. The flashing colours and lights are creating a little chemical party in your head. If you watch too much T.V, you get used to the lightening fast stimulation, and you adjust yourself to it, resulting in a shorter attention span overall.

I myself experienced this yesterday. I had a really productive morning, and then I watched some T.V over lunch and suddenly my focus was all over the place. Not good.

The most significant thing T.V does to your brain chemically is it suppresses your Melatonin. Melatonin is basically a hormone that helps you to sleep. Any kind of light suppresses it. That's why it's so much easier to wake up in the summer when the sun is out. It means that we as humans are diurnal animals - we sleep in the dark and are active in the day. But studies have shown that blue light - light from laptop screens, phones and other electronics, is even more effective at suppressing Melatonin, which makes it harder to sleep in the hours after you've been exposed to it. This is not good news for people who's evening routine involves a lot of T.V - their version of 'rest' is actually having a negative impact on their real rest.

Most of us will be effected by this because the last thing we do is set our alarms on our phones. I've been told a good method is to plan what time you're going to bed, and an hour before set  your alarm so it's done, and turn off all your electrics. It's supposed to really improve your quality of sleep. I can believe this actually, some of the best sleeps of my life have been when I've been camping and have had no electronics around. Worth a try, I reckon.

Anyway, that's the downside of T.V. Now for the benefits of books.



Books stimulate your mind in a different way, You are gently working your brain when you read, but only mildly, like a nice stroll in the park. This means you can both relax and strengthen your brain at the same time. And you're getting much the same entertainment value (if not more) as when you watch T.V. There is no story told on film that hasn't also been written down in some way. And with books, you need to use your imagination a little bit too.

So it seems that if you replaced all your T.V time with reading time, you would still have had some entertainment and escapism, AND you would also have a better exercised and therefore better functioning brain, better quality sleep, a wider vocabulary, and a strengthened imagination. Reading really is coming out on top here.

HOWEVER. I am not for a minute suggesting that anyone forgoes all T.V and Film and replaces it all with books. Like I say, it's all about balance. There are some things books can not do. If, like me, you love a visual story with good direction, script writing, cinematography, maybe some animation and some cracking acting, then you need to watch some T.V and Film.

But perhaps that should be a checklist. Quality control. Twin Peaks (my current favourite show) certainly ticks some of those boxes. Eastenders? Not so much. But maybe it does for some people. Each to their own.

My point is, if you are going to put up with all the negative effects of T.V, then you should at least make sure that what your watching is worth it. If not, and all you want is a bit of relaxing entertainment. Then pick up that book. You're much better off.



Because basically, books are ace.

Twenty more days!

Monday, 8 September 2014

Am I... doing this right?

So here are some things I have learned about meditation

First of all, this is me:




It’s hard. Like. Really hard. Harder than you would think. People who know me know I am always thinking. My brain is always ticking away. I’m an over thinker. Sometimes it’s a good thing and sometimes it’s a bad thing. For meditation it’s a bad thing. I find it so hard to quieten my brain. But sometimes… just sometimes… something happens and it all feels clear. And if I can figure out a way to get there more often, I am going to love this.

It’s not the same every time. Each day feels different. Sometimes I find it impossible to relax and other times I slip right into it. I’m starting to learn what the best times are for me to meditate. Morning is definitely the best for me. Unfortunately yesterday I didn't get round to it in the morning, and I tried in the evening. Because I had barely slept the night before, I was just too tired. At first I thought it was great – my mind was clearing easily. But then I kept slouching down and I realized I was really just falling asleep! So yeah, morning is best for me, as long as I've had a bit of time to wake up!

I've also tried a range of slightly different methods this week. Today was a bit of a breakthrough. I discovered that music helps me. Of course, not just your average pop music. Go on YouTube and type in ‘meditation music’ and a whole range of super relaxing, zen, gongs and wind chimes stuff comes up. And you know what, it really helps me. For some reason I find it so much easier to clear my mind when I have that music running in the background. I’m not sure exactly how it works but it does.

Now this is what I THINK is the feeling I've been aiming for. Sometimes, it’s like a wave hits my whole body, and I feel slightly on the edge of reality. My body is lighter. And my mind seems clear. Now when I say ‘clear’ – I don’t mean completely blank. It’s more like it’s completely unburdened by my thoughts and worries, and my imagination can just run free. It sort of feels like that moment just before you fall asleep, when you already start dreaming.


Is this meditation? I don’t know. It’s hard to figure out what’s ‘right’ in this kind of thing. But I like it, and I tend to feel pretty good after each session, so I’m going to keep going and see what happens!

More updates soon! Twenty days to go. 

Tuesday, 2 September 2014

Let's Get Zen

Well I'm four days into my new challenge and I am yet to blog about it which is very naughty, but to be honest I was waiting to have something interesting to say!

My new challenge is:
                                              Meditate every day for thirty days.


We all know this guy has the right idea.

My reasons behind this challenge is that meditation is said to reduce stress and help you focus. I am now entering my third and final year of university, and less stress and more focus would definitely help me! Also, it's something I've always wanted to try and have simply never done. 

They say it takes a while for meditation to 'click'. I'm trying to track my progress day by day: so here is what the last few days have been like.

Day One

First thing I did today was meditate.

The idea is to focus on your breathing and not let any other thoughts get in the way. Today I tried visualizing a flower opening and closing with my breathing. Whenever I started thinking about other things I would try and return to the image. Strangely though, I feel that when you are visualizing something repetitive like that, you can actually visualize that and think about other things at the same time. So returning to it didn't always work. Also, I found it hard to control the image. Often the flower would start opening and closing out of rhythm with my breathing, or just stop altogether, or morph into something else. I don't really know what this means, but it was odd.

Unfortunately, just as I was starting to feel like I was getting 'in the zone' - I realized my foot had gone numb. I had been sitting cross legged on the floor and somehow cut the circulation off. Suddenly this was all I could think about and I was desperately waiting for my alarm to go off. I realized that the meditation had become pointless now so I stopped, about six minutes early.

When I opened my eyes, everything was very bright and vivid and I did feel really calm and relaxed. It was a nice sensation!

Day Two

Again, I made meditation the very first thing I did this morning. And again I sat on the floor, this time with my foot more in front of me so I wasn't putting so much pressure on it, but god damn it it went numb again! Clearly I need to find a new position. So again I finished a little early but I'm not going to beat myself up too much about it. I found it very hard to focus today, mind wandered a lot to all the things I have to do (leaving for birmingham today!) I'm finding it extremely hard to banish these intrusive thoughts. I think the imagery thing isn't quite working for me. I tried chanting a mantra in my head, which is quite a popular method, but again, like with the repetitive imagery, I found that after a while the chant became background and I was thinking again.

Day Three

I have learned two things today: 

1. Meditating in afternoon is not the same as in the morning. Morning works much better for me.  
2. Don't meditate on a full stomach. It aint comfy.

Today's session was very short. I couldn't get in the head space at all. I tried sitting on a chair instead of cross legged on the floor but I actually found it more uncomfortable on my back. For some reason I found it harder to sit upright in the chair than I do on the floor, which is a bit odd. So not a success today but I will try again tomorrow!

Day Four

Back to morning meditation. Today I sat cross legged on a pillow with my feet resting on the floor in front. Finally found a comfortable position, no numb feet!! And today I completed the full half hour - yay!

I'm starting to realize how hard meditation is. Stopping yourself from thinking about all your little tasks and worries is really difficult! Funnily enough I spend half the time thinking about what I'm going to write on this blog! However, I think today I might have found something that works for me. 

About halfway through the session I took an unwanted thought (which was in the shape of a person at this point) and I visualized walking them to a red door, letting them through and shutting it. Actually shutting them out of my brain. And it worked. Then suddenly this room was building up around the door. A room with a huge window, a sofa and a writing desk, with the red door in the corner. Every time anything/anyone would appear in the room that I didn't want there I would shut them behind the red door. Then BIZARRELY there was this little black scottish terrier dog there. I say this is bizzare because I am so much of a cat person. Not really into dogs! But he was definitely supposed to be there, curled up in my lap. I also had my juggling balls there, and played with them for a while.

I've read about people sort of creating safe spaces within their mind which they can go to when they meditate, and I'm wondering if that's what I've done. This is the first thing that has really helped me to push thoughts away and really relax. It didn't work 100% - things definitely came back through the door but then I would just put them back and shut it again. It felt good.

When the session was over I felt fantastic - relaxed and energized at the same time. So I think.... maybe.... this is starting to do something.

Twenty Six more days - let's see where my mind takes me!